Thursday, March 24, 2022
“Reconcile with Someone”
In case you didn’t see this Challenge coming, I apologize for the sucker punch. Every year, this one is included somewhere in Lenten Challenges. It is also the one that makes more people unhappy than any other Challenge, or, at least, until the Challenge is completed.
Reconciling with those who have hurt us (and those we have hurt) is very difficult. As adults, we teach our children to try and keep the peace and not burn bridges with others. However, when we adults are hurt by another adult, we often turn our backs and pretend that person doesn’t exist. We know this isn’t acceptable, yet, some of us still maintain wounds that are years and decades old. Some of us even have family members we haven’t spoken with in many years.
Today’s Challenge, to reconcile with someone, is not intended to create a worse situation between us and those in whom we are conflicted. Rather, today’s Challenge is intended to cause us to think (and even pray) about a struggle that is heavy on our hearts and minds, as well as the need to begin the repair process.
How will we do it? Will we send a text, email, or handwritten letter? Will we pick up the phone and call them? We are not responsible for the responses we receive; if a door is slammed in our face, then it’s okay. We tried our best. Even a failed attempt can represent a small step forward, but not taking the step will prevent the opportunity to witness what God might accomplish.
Let’s jump to it! Let’s Reconcile with Someone today!
“So when you are offering your gift at the altar, if you remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother or sister, and then come and offer your gift.” (Matthew 5:23-24, NRSV)
